Change how you react

So often we encounter people or situations that are not as we expect or what we would like and this at times completely takes the control we have away. It is like someone punching you right in the middle of your stomach and taking the air out of you. You struggle to find your breath, … Continue reading Change how you react

When do you say enough?

Sometimes as woman, as men, as human beings we go through so much be it work drama or family drama or maybe it’s relationships or marriages or kids. Problems and conflict will always be there because we are all uniquely different human beings and what may seem right for one may not be for another. … Continue reading When do you say enough?

Gossiping

Had to share. This basically sums it’s don’t. Don’t worry about those that talk behind you back. They have so many faults In their own life that they don’t know where or how to start to fix them so they rather spend idle time GOSSIPING about yours!!! Soon they will realise their faults won’t go … Continue reading Gossiping

Making my voice heard

For many years I have always been that person that works really hard, helps others and truly does more than I should. I have always said I am that behind the scene kind of person. The one that speaks when they have something to say and not that one than talks more than anything else. … Continue reading Making my voice heard

A tough day..3 days later and it’s an unimportant matter

Today was one of those tough days an encounter with no other words to put it but bullies. I must be honest and say for some reason this encounter really took the air out of me. Felt so angry after, which is strange as I am someone who actually does not allow anyones behavior to … Continue reading A tough day..3 days later and it’s an unimportant matter

Happiness is like a butterfly

Something I have heard so many times throughout my life. When you in a situation weather it’s the pursuit of love or career or that which you desire most this saying “happiness is like a butterfly the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other … Continue reading Happiness is like a butterfly

We all have our own manual of life

Everyone has there own perception and way of thinking that this is how something should be, this is how one’s life should flow. Many a times people try and pass this off as this is the way things should work. It’s almost as if they have this manual of life with instructions, and somehow you … Continue reading We all have our own manual of life

Respecting yourself first

You need to respect yourself, and not expect this from anyone else. You need to love yourself just as you are, HOW? Well you need to realise that you are you, there is no other person like you,  you need to be proud of who you are, yes sure maybe you have not yet achieved … Continue reading Respecting yourself first

Right Life Partner

What is a perfect relationship? Does this even exists?Personally I don’t think it does. Fairytales are books writen with perfect beginnigs and endings. They don’t happen that way in real like though. I know couples that have hurt each other so much during the younger years but now they the happiest of and closest of people. My … Continue reading Right Life Partner

Respecting yourself first

You need to respect yourself, and not expect this from anyone else. You need to love yourself just as you are, how? Well you need to realise that you are you, there is no other person like you,  you need to be proud of who you are, yes sure maybe you have not yet achieved … Continue reading Respecting yourself first