Some people just don’t deserve our kindness

Ever feel this way that there are just some people that no matter how good and kind your are by nature some people that actually don’t deserve your kindness. 

I am someone that respects everyone no matter who you are or what you do or what have I respect you and I treat you with kindness. 

But I have encountered some people who are so rude and nasty I am being kind in my descriptions here!!

As much as I try and ignore there behaviour I find myself asking this questions do they actually deserve my kindness?

I have actually come to realise no they don’t. I won’t be rude becuase that is not me, but I won’t entertain their behaviour and I certainly won’t tolerate it. Why should I? I am in control of my life, of who I am and what I am so why should tolerate nasty people. 

So what I do is just ignore their existence. It does become hard in the case that you work with this person or for this person. But then I think you need to make that choice do you allow someone to treat you badly or do you stand up for youself and say enough is enough. I would go for the latter. Don’t ever allow anyone to make you feel bad. Stand up and speak up.

Never be afraid to demand respect. You are entitled to this no matter who you are and where you from and what you do. 

It is your right as a human being to be in control of how you should be treated and respected, and you should always demand this no matter who it’s from. Stand tall stand you ground. No matter what this is your right. To be treated with kindness and respect. 

Sending love and light to all

2 thoughts on “Some people just don’t deserve our kindness

  1. I tend to agree. You have to take ‘a side’, and exclude those who are not on your side. But never let that evolve into bitterness. I did that in the 1980s, and it was ultimately self destructive.
    Thanks very much for following my blog.
    Best wishes, Pete.

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