The fact that you have something to decide about is often a sign that you have already decided, but you seeking the assurance that this decision is the right one.
We often find ourselves in this situation so many times in our life, weather it’s the decision to start a relationship, to start a family or to start a new career opportunity, to end a friendship. These are just a few examples of life’s decisons we face and we often ask for a sign to help make these decisions.
The mere fact that you are considering this means that the decison is made you have decided be it in your heart or mind this is what I want to do but, there is uncertainty and this is why you asking for some sign some assurance that what you have decided is the best decison.
There is no assurance, there is no guarantee, we have to have faith that what we have decided to do is what is best for us and go into this next step with the mindset that it it’s going to work, we going to ensure it does.
Yes agreed sometimes we take the leap and life throughs a curve ball and we wish to go back, but the reality is this is life there is no guarantees, we need to face the good, the bad the nasty and move foward, learn from what went wrong and pick ourselves up and know that as long as you still breathing there is hope to try again.
It is better to have tried and failed than never to have tried at all.
Yes some decisions are big ones, do I marry this person that I have been with for so long. Personally for me the fact that you asking yourself that questions is in it self your answer. When you choose to spend your life with someone it’s never a question, it’s rather a feeling that I can’t imagine being without this person.
The decision to start a new career leaving the one that you have known and are comfortable in for something unknown, if you don’t take the chance you will never know, besides if you were really happy inside out you would not even be faced with the decision to leave.
Decisions are easy, consequences of the decisions we make are hard. But we need to have faith and we need to be positive in what we decide.
Going into a new journey with mindset that this is not going to work is already setting yourself up to not succeed, put out the positive energy focus on it, some of us pray, some mediate, some journal, some sit in silence.
Whatever your way is put the positive energy out there that this decision you have made is the best one for you and it is going to work, set you mind, set your heart, beleieve in it so much so that, as the book “The Secret” say’s, “See the things that you want as already yours.”
I know it’s easier said than done, but we all have an imagination, we were born with this, growing up we tend to place this ability in the bottom of our have list. It’s time we use it again. Imagine that you have it beleive that you have it, feel like you have it, live as you have it. And you will have it.
So imagine the decision you have made is the life you living, embrace it, be proud of it and send that positive energy out that this is your life this is you path and this is what you want.
Sending love and light to all