HAVING REGRET

If there is one thing we all know for sure is that we cannot go back in time unless ofcourse we have managed to a build a time machine 😁.

So I always beleive that to have regret is one of the worst feelings to have becuase you can’t go back and change things.

If it’s a regret about saying something to someone or not saying something and that moment has passed and you can’t get it back. Or if it’s regret about doing something.

If you want to say something say it. Do what you want to do and don’t be afraid. If you thinking it then there is a very strong reason for that and that in itself say’s that maybe just maybe you need to give this more importance.

If there is something you want to do then go forth and do it, what is stopping you. Don’t look back and wonder what if. It’s better to try and fail than never to try at all. 
Remember we are all human beings and we can’t live forever, when it’s our time to ago we will go, so if there is something you want to share with someone in your life share it. Stop waiting for the right moment and opportunity. Create your opportunity and say what you want to say. 

Sometimes we leave things becuase maybe at this moment they just don’t seem so important, like making that call to say hello or expressing ones feelings and emotions to the ones we care about. Then tomorrow comes and that person is no more. That heartache and regret is such a heavy feeling, how do we deal with that, what if I had said this or done this, what if I had been there more.

You can’t go back you need to accept this, you need to focus the heart ache and the regret on the things you can change. If you did not get to say what you feel to that person then maybe project your feelings and emotions on someone that you can help and be there for and give that attention to.

Don’t hold on to the regret, focus it on the things you can change going foward. 

Live your life with no WHAT IF’S.  Rather have the experience to share of what you did do and what you did say that did not go according to plan but you did it, you were not afraid to take that chance. 

Make the change today, so that you have no regrets going forward in life. 

Sending love and light to all

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