As human beings we always trying to manage something or someone. No matter the situation we always trying to manage it, make it better than what it is, or make someone think the way we think they should be thinking. Trying to convince someone to do what we think they should be doing. Sometimes we … Continue reading Managing myself
I find myself asking this question daily…..Is the effort and time and energy I am giving to my career actually worth it? The reality is the more you give the more is expected, and I seem to be getting so angry and annoyed at anyone that just comes in at 8 and leaves at 4 … Continue reading Giving too much at work, Is it worth it?
Picture say’s it all #mymorningroutine Need I say more 🌼 What’s your morning routine? Sending love and light to all…
It's easy to say this but sometimes we all go through things in life where it's really not that easy to just stay positive. But it's not impossible to do. On some day's it does take a little more effort than other day's. Often I hear people say do some meditation to still the mind … Continue reading Staying Positive
Even though we are in a self lock down, well most of us around the world. We still can't find the time for many things. Works to hectic and takes up much more time than it used to because we now working from home. Home schooling is a challenge as we need to ensure the … Continue reading Check-in and Check-up
Something we all take for grated, and if we not taking it for grated we choose to ignore it. Life is filled with so much that at times even though everything seems to be going perfectly well and you have all that you have ever wanted, you still sometimes feel lost. You go about doing … Continue reading Mental wellbeing
IT is an ever changing field because technology is evolving at such a rapid pace what we did 10 years ago is very different to what you do today. It's that field that you can never become complacent or claim to be bored. What you learn and how you grow is all in your hands! … Continue reading How do I – Grow my career as an IT Graduate
My week started off on high and it was going great until this morning, woke up with an awful migraine, decided to just lie in, but then forced myself to wake up and help my little munchkin get ready for school, always amazes me how I can put that migraine to rest when it comes … Continue reading How’s the week going..
It's that feeling of happiness and bliss, that you feel from within. It's the feeling of being grateful that gives you that feeling from within of being truly happy. Life is filled with moments, how we choose to embrace those moments is ultimately up to each of us as living beings. Sometimes we look for … Continue reading Joy-fullness
It is the most important aspect of any job but it's become the one thing that everyone has simply just put aside. I am going to be blunt and completely honest, any one offering a service, no matter what industry you are in, be mindful of this very important fact, people do not need to … Continue reading How to do – Customer Service
I think it's important to know that telling your child something goes in one ear and often comes out the other. But showing them by your actions, these are lessons that no amount of talking can teach. As parents we need to be that role model for our child, how we handle situations and how … Continue reading Raising our future
Sometimes we need to talk less. Yes!! You heard right, we need to listen more not just hear what someone is saying but actually listen to what they saying. This is one thing many of us need to learn. We listen, just to respond back, we don’t actually listen to what that other person is saying. … Continue reading How to – Talk less, listen and do more
Why do we define our lives and what we supposed to achieve and when we supposed to achieve it by what others have done or what we believe society expects of us. We are the society and we create our very own expectations. We are setting that bar to reach and we are placing that … Continue reading Creating our own lives
We are all different. What is a priority for me may not be for the next person and it's important to realize this, and really to accept this. Priorities grow as we grow, what was important for me at 21 has changed to what is a priority and more important to me today, and this … Continue reading Deciding our Priorities
Came across this poem on someones feed on Facebook, not sure who the author is but credit goes to the author because this poem speaks volumes.... Talk to you later.- I'll call you later.- See you later.- We'll walk later. "I'll tell you later." We leave everything for later, but forget that "later" does not … Continue reading Later
Life timeout, from our norm. Everyday we get accustomed to following a certain routine. We become set in doing things a certain way. Eventually it does become the norm. We do detour at times, but most often it’s a set way of what we do and how we do it. From working, to being a parent or … Continue reading Timeout
Calming the mind to be as peaceful and serene as the stillness in this picture...
For those that have found love even though I believe we should be showing our love each and everyday to each other and not just one day a year. Showing love is not about gifts and fancy restaurants, it's about making sure that special person and all your loved one's knows that you love them, … Continue reading Valentines day ….
So always remember when creating your CV this is your first impression and we usually only get one chance to make a first impression so make sure it’s great. The idea about the CV also depends upon the industry you in. The kind of job you applying for. These are important factors to take into consideration. If … Continue reading How do I – Create my CV
Preparing for a interview
Ever felt like why am I here? Why am I doing this ? Why is this happening to me?The answer is simple you have chosen the path you are on.You can change it, that control is within your hands but you choosing not to, maybe it’s because of your sense on responsibilty or maybe it’s … Continue reading The path you on is the path you choose to be on….
Ever really thought of this. Sometimes we achieve something and get the recognition for it and get the promotion for it, but there is also someone else who works equally as hard, achieves the same, but maybe on this particular day and this particular time, in this place and with this person you did something … Continue reading My blessings may be anothers curse
For many of us 2020 has been a tough year. Losing people we love and not being able to say our proper final goodbyes. For some losing their jobs, not being able to live their lives as they usually did, having to give up homes, things we love. It’s just been a year filled with so … Continue reading Thinking back
I think we all do this. We negatively program ourselves. Yes there are definately nasty people that exists, and they do cross our paths and say and do things that makes us feel bad. But I do think that we allow them to. When someone is nasty to you or treats you badly it’s usually a … Continue reading Negative/Positive Programming
It is a beautiful day, the rain is falling and everything seems to grow brighter and more beautiful when the rain falls.It’s been some time since I have blogged, just been taking some me time, to get things in my perspective and create a new routine. Think it’s important to change things up a bit … Continue reading It’s a beautiful day…
I have started reading the book the The Magic, it’s a different kind of book, in the sense that it requires some work for 28 days. But it’s a good book. Everyday I need to write 10 things I am grateful for and why first thing in the morning, I think the first 3 days was … Continue reading Being grateful
Everyone has there own perception and way of thinking that this is how something should be, this is how one’s life should flow. Many a times people try and pass this off as this is the way things should work. It’s almost as if they have this manual of life with instructions, and somehow you … Continue reading We all have our own manual of life
A question to ponder about? There are times when we think we know it all and our resistance to want to learn more or experience more becomes more heightened. We feel we have done this, we know the answer even before the questions asked. So we half full and are not willing to learn more … Continue reading Am I half empty or half full
Ever feel this way that there are just some people that no matter how good and kind your are by nature some people that actually don’t deserve your kindness. I am someone that respects everyone no matter who you are or what you do or what have I respect you and I treat you with kindness. But … Continue reading Some people just don’t deserve our kindness
How true is this? Without even knowing you think about something and you start moving in the direction of your thoughts, your actions, your words they all start to move in this direction, why well because this is what you thinking, this is what is on your mind? Then you ask yourself how did I get … Continue reading What you think so to you become
I love journalling it’s a great way to express your feelings and emotions, when you actually sit and take the time to write down what you feel and what you are going through to write out your deepest emotions, it helps, it’s helps you to make sense and also to realise things about yourself that … Continue reading Journalling
In order to love anyone we need to first love ourselves. We go through so many things in our lives, some good and some not so good. These are the experiences of our life and shape us in becoming the person we are right now in this moment.
During this pandemic, I think we all have a new found appreciation for all the things we always took for granted. We had all this freedom before and now that we don’t have it, we appreciate it so much more. The long drives and the long walks, being in nature, being able to be free, not … Continue reading Appreciating what we have
So many times we place so much expectations on ourselves.We have to achieve a degree, we have to work for a big corporate company, buy a house, get married at a certain again, start a family. Whose expectations are these? We all different, and that difference makes each and everyone one of us unique. So don't … Continue reading Loving ourselves
The fact that you have something to decide about is often a sign that you have already decided, but you seeking the assurance that this decision is the right one. We often find ourselves in this situation so many times in our life, weather it’s the decision to start a relationship, to start a family … Continue reading Making Life’s Decisions
Ever just sat and asked yourself this question!!I think the answer to this questions changes as we grow, when I was younger as compared to now this answer has evolved and changed so completely. The younger me would have answered I want to have a great career, travel the world, I think deep down it was … Continue reading What is it that I want
Yesterday after doing my daily meditation I usually read a passage from a book and just take in my surroundings. As I did this I noticed this small little leaf on the branch of a tree, it was so windy and this poor little leaf was blowing from side to side, and everything around it … Continue reading A Leaf that stands strong amist the strongest wind
So often we ask for something, we pray for it, we work towards it we speak to the universe and we project all our energy into asking for something that we want. And then it comes to us but it’s not exactly in the way we wanted it to be or expected it to be, but … Continue reading Receiving what you want but not accepting as it’s not wrapped the way you expect
At some point or another we all face these questions to ourselves do we have faith, is faith enough to acheive our dreams. Can our dreams be achieved by having faith that it will be.Can faith heal people. I beleive that when your faith is strong you can accomplish so much more than when it’s … Continue reading Having Faith
It’s such a common thing in today’s day and age. Or maybe it’s just more open in today’s day and age as compared to the day’s of our parents and grand parents. When two people come together and decide to get married, this is an extremely important life decision, you can’t decide to get married because … Continue reading Cheating is a choice not a mistake
Sometimes what we doing is not really what is. We build this entire situation start to end in our mind and we already know the outcome before it’s even had a chance to play out. This happens in our daily lives, at work, we already perceive this is how it’s going to be we don’t give … Continue reading Perception And What We Really Want
What is a perfect relationship? Does this even exists?Personally I don’t think it does. Fairytales are books writen with perfect beginnigs and endings. They don’t happen that way in real like though. I know couples that have hurt each other so much during the younger years but now they the happiest of and closest of people. My … Continue reading Right Life Partner
There is so much happenening during this time. For some of us it’s just a normal work from home, with the addition of having to do remote learning and yes it’s hard, but it’s manageable and I am sure by now we have found a way to handle it. It’s become the new NORMAL as … Continue reading During the pandemic
This is not an easy experience. Being told you not right for this job, being told you not the right person for someone you like, applying to the colledge of your dreams and getting that letter that say’s sorry you have not being accepted. REJECTION comes in all forms and we all go through it. Some … Continue reading Rejection
This happens so often in so many different places in our lives. We give others the authority to become so important to us. What they say and do affects us so much. We allow this, we allow them to have an impact on us why? Why do we give others this priority in our lives when … Continue reading Priority and Option
If there is one thing we all know for sure is that we cannot go back in time unless ofcourse we have managed to a build a time machine 😁.So I always beleive that to have regret is one of the worst feelings to have becuase you can’t go back and change things. If it’s … Continue reading HAVING REGRET
I read these words the other day and they made me think.So often in our lives we say, if only things were like this, I would be happy, If only I could do this, I would be so happy. If only I had the opportunity, If only!!Then you just continue as you usually do. If … Continue reading What you are not changing you are choosing
Why is it that even though we know we can accomoplish and achieve our dream and reach our goal that we always doubt and have that underlying feeling, THAT SOMETHING COULD GO WRONG. I know that no matter how strong I thought my faith was during certain times in my life I have felt that what … Continue reading Stop being Afraid of what could go wrong
Both in our personal and professional life support is so important. In our personal life and home life we need the support of our family this is so important and when it’s not there, the choices we make becomes a bit harder to make than it would have been had we had the support of our … Continue reading Having a good support structure
You need to respect yourself, and not expect this from anyone else. You need to love yourself just as you are, how? Well you need to realise that you are you, there is no other person like you, you need to be proud of who you are, yes sure maybe you have not yet achieved … Continue reading Respecting yourself first
What an awesome way to start the day and blessed I am to have an amazingly wonderful husband that has made me a healthy breakfast great start to the day. #healthy#fruits#breakfast#blessed Sending love and light to all….