Very wise words

Came across this saying and absolutely had to share. So true if only we all thought this was how peaceful life would be… Anger is an emotion a very strong and powerful one and while I agree we should embrace and feel our anger we should not allow it to consume us to the point … Continue reading Very wise words

Strength

How true is this? Often we think our strength is all the things we can do, our knowledge our ability to do for our loved ones. But our true strength comes to play when we find ourselves in a situation that we have never been in. When we don’t know what to do, or how … Continue reading Strength

Change how you react

So often we encounter people or situations that are not as we expect or what we would like and this at times completely takes the control we have away. It is like someone punching you right in the middle of your stomach and taking the air out of you. You struggle to find your breath, … Continue reading Change how you react

When do you say enough?

Sometimes as woman, as men, as human beings we go through so much be it work drama or family drama or maybe it’s relationships or marriages or kids. Problems and conflict will always be there because we are all uniquely different human beings and what may seem right for one may not be for another. … Continue reading When do you say enough?

Gossiping

Had to share. This basically sums it’s don’t. Don’t worry about those that talk behind you back. They have so many faults In their own life that they don’t know where or how to start to fix them so they rather spend idle time GOSSIPING about yours!!! Soon they will realise their faults won’t go … Continue reading Gossiping

Who you were VS Who you are

We all do this at times compare ourselves to who we were once. The reality is when you were that person life was different, circumstance was different the people in your life was different. You were who you were them because of the place you were in your life at that moment. You are who … Continue reading Who you were VS Who you are

Living like a River

Sometimes this is easier said than done. Especially when you have had a very difficult past just forgetting about is so hard. But it’s NOT impossible. Think of the RIVER is never flows in reverse it always flow ahead. Leave the past in the past. Focus on your future and always be positive.

Grades don’t define YOU

While cleaning out our storage space I came across my half year final year school results!!! Many many moons ago 😊 I thought to myself looking back I felt as if this defined me, this was who I am. The reality is even though I did so bad and even failed computer studies. Today I … Continue reading Grades don’t define YOU

Making my voice heard

For many years I have always been that person that works really hard, helps others and truly does more than I should. I have always said I am that behind the scene kind of person. The one that speaks when they have something to say and not that one than talks more than anything else. … Continue reading Making my voice heard

“Thank you” instead of “I am sorry” let’s try it

Stumbled upon this and had to share. How absolutely true it is? Let’s practice some positivity and gratitude this week in all we do. Have a blessed and terrific Tuesday..

A tough day..3 days later and it’s an unimportant matter

Today was one of those tough days an encounter with no other words to put it but bullies. I must be honest and say for some reason this encounter really took the air out of me. Felt so angry after, which is strange as I am someone who actually does not allow anyones behavior to … Continue reading A tough day..3 days later and it’s an unimportant matter

Be more selfish – happy Monday

Sometimes we worry so much about others about doing what is right about following rules set out by others. It’s time we make our own rules, it’s time we think about ourselves. Do what makes u happy today be a little selfish!!! Sending love and light to all..

Family time

We went on a family holiday. Sharing some moments of the beautiful nature we were surrounded by daily. Being in nature and taking in the fresh air is all the right ingredients to heal one’s mind body and soul. Of course enjoying this with your family is just amazing. Magical My heartThe beauty of natureNo … Continue reading Family time

Making a career of what you love to do

Build your career around what you love.You increase your chances of success significantlyand it will make it easier to keep going during tough times.– Khanyi Dhlomo This saying just got me thinking this morning, even though I enjoy doing I am doing, lately I find myself dreaming of something new. It's so important to love … Continue reading Making a career of what you love to do

Being a Mom to my very strong opinionated Daughter

Raising a daughter is takes a lot of patience I would say. When there is so much more chaos in the world and so much more violence against women. One of the most important lessons to teach our daughters is to stand tall, stand up for herself, never allow anyone to determine how you feel. … Continue reading Being a Mom to my very strong opinionated Daughter

Heartfelt Thursday Motivation

This is so true. When our hearts are full of love, our life and everything around us becomes joyful, happy and lovable. We see the goodness in everything. We more willing and able to accept that we deserve this happiness. We appreciate it and are so thankful for this heartfelt love and joy we feel. … Continue reading Heartfelt Thursday Motivation

It Was His Time To Leave

My dad died at the age of 44. He was the healthiest man I knew, he ate healthy, did not drink alcohol, did not smoke, loved his gym work outs, he was so healthy. For a very long time I always asked Why him? He woke up that Sunday morning, cooked, relaxed and decided he’d … Continue reading It Was His Time To Leave

Mighty Monday Inspirations

Believe with all you heart, with all you might and your belief will make it come through to you. Happy Monday all, it’s the start of a new week a new beginning make it count for you. Sending love and light to all…

Self-care=Self-love=Happy Self

Some self care for a fantabulous Friday. What’s your self care routines? Sending love and light..

Happiness is like a butterfly

Something I have heard so many times throughout my life. When you in a situation weather it’s the pursuit of love or career or that which you desire most this saying “happiness is like a butterfly the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other … Continue reading Happiness is like a butterfly

Minds matters

How true is this? Sometimes it’s all in our mind and we are our own worst enemy. Stop!!! Why not stop being so hard on yourself give yourself a break you deserve it!!!!! Sending love and light…

Life matters

Sometimes we need to enjoy the simple things in life, the things we tend to take for granted like watching the sun come up or swimming in the ocean or walking on the beach. Or just walking and looking up at the sky 🌼 Could even be waking up and just living a life that … Continue reading Life matters

Sunday morning motivations..

This post came up this morning on my Facebook.. So had to share simple but true. Sometimes you have to just embrace where you are right now good or not so good it’s okay. Sending lots of love and light on this beautiful Sunday. Embrace your life’s moments.. Where are you right now and how … Continue reading Sunday morning motivations..

Believing in myself

Believing and trusting in oneself that you can achieve anything you want to achieve. Nothing is out of reach no matter how it may seem. Have faith and trust in yourself and your ability to achieve what you want to achieve. There will be moments of doubt for sure, but don’t allow those doubts to … Continue reading Believing in myself

Afraid, Scared, Hesitant

These are feelings and emotions each of us have felt at one point in our life’s journey. Looking back at one of my most fearful moments, I decided to take the plunge so to say leaving my home relocating to another city with no family, no support just the unknown ahead. Turns out that decision … Continue reading Afraid, Scared, Hesitant

Morning Affirmations

Loved waking up this morning and writing down all these wonderful affirmations and more and then taking the time to read it back to myself what a glorious start to a wonderful Wednesday…. Noting my affirmations… How did you start your morning? Sending love and light and some sparkles your way for a little magic … Continue reading Morning Affirmations

A Tree Truth

When you look at a tree in the heart of winters it’s dry and there not leaves, it would appear as if it’s no more but we know without a shadow of a doubt that when summer comes around that tree is going to be filled with beautiful bright green leaves. You know this, you … Continue reading A Tree Truth

Live in your moment..

Why is this so hard? Living in the moment. This is your life, your path. Yes it’s great to always plan ahead but planning ahead and wishing you were some place else is two different things. Where you are in your life is actually where you are have chosen to be. Nothing prevents you from … Continue reading Live in your moment..

Who am I ?

Who am I, who are you really, behind all the roles you play of being a child, being a daughter/son or mom/dad or wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, colleague, business partner.

Creating Great Life Habits

As we grow through life, so much changes besides us as individuals, everything changes, what was 10 years ago has completely evolved......

Marvelous Monday

It’s a new week a new day. One may even say a new beginning. Make it what you want it to be and go forth and conquer find your gift your passion, and share it with all. Sending love and light to all….

Changing to make my life better

A question we should constantly be asking ourselves. What I can change about me to make my life better to help me grow to help.......

Confidence – Fear Not

This saying just just caught my eye this morning… Sometimes we allow fear to get in between so many things. Most times this fear stops us from going down that road less travelled. The only time we truly get to experience life to embrace life is to embrace those fears. Wishing each of you a … Continue reading Confidence – Fear Not

Being BORED

Have you ever considered being BORED a blessing!! Well I absolutely believe it is, it means you have time, time to think, time to do and time to do nothing which in itself is sometimes a blessing. We all need that time to just sit and do nothing, not think, not feel just being relaxed, … Continue reading Being BORED

Good Teacher’s are hard to find

This is such an important relationship in life. Often I think we as parents don't give it enough thought and attention. Your child spends most of their day as children with this person their teacher, they learn and grow through them. Some teachers are amazing with time, energy patience, the ability to be empathetic and … Continue reading Good Teacher’s are hard to find

Managing myself

As human beings we always trying to manage something or someone. No matter the situation we always trying to manage it, make it better than what it is, or make someone think the way we think they should be thinking. Trying to convince someone to do what we think they should be doing.  Sometimes we … Continue reading Managing myself

Giving too much at work, Is it worth it?

I find myself asking this question daily…..Is the effort and time and energy I am giving to my career actually worth it? The reality is the more you give the more is expected, and I seem to be getting so angry and annoyed at anyone that just comes in at 8 and leaves at 4 … Continue reading Giving too much at work, Is it worth it?

Morning routine

Picture say’s it all #mymorningroutine Need I say more 🌼 What’s your morning routine? Sending love and light to all…

Staying Positive

It's easy to say this but sometimes we all go through things in life where it's really not that easy to just stay positive.  But it's not impossible to do. On some day's it does take a little more effort than other day's. Often I hear people say do some meditation to still the mind … Continue reading Staying Positive

Check-in and Check-up

Even though we are in a self lock down, well most of us around the world. We still can't find the time for many things.  Works to hectic and takes up much more time than it used to because we now working from home. Home schooling is a challenge as we need to ensure the … Continue reading Check-in and Check-up

Mental wellbeing

Something we all take for grated, and if we not taking it for grated we choose to ignore it.  Life is filled with so much that at times even though everything seems to be going perfectly well and you have all that you have ever wanted, you still sometimes feel lost. You go about doing … Continue reading Mental wellbeing

How do I – Grow my career as an IT Graduate

IT is an ever changing field because technology is evolving at such a rapid pace what we did 10 years ago is very different to what you do today. It's that field that you can never become complacent or claim to be bored. What you learn and how you grow is all in your hands! … Continue reading How do I – Grow my career as an IT Graduate

How’s the week going..

My week started off on high and it was going great until this morning, woke up with an awful migraine, decided to just lie in, but then forced myself to wake up and help my little munchkin get ready for school, always amazes me how I can put that migraine to rest when it comes … Continue reading How’s the week going..

Inner Peace

I posted this last and it seems today just opted to repost it. Sunday afternoon feelings…. I have read books and listened to so many amazing motivational speakers some say that you should not allow others to influence your emotions. That is not easy, for me at least I am a wife, mother, daughter and … Continue reading Inner Peace

Happy November

Just had to share this… Happy November beautiful humans. Sending love and light to all